The Greatest Teacher...?

Having policies against this life deliberately lands miserable scenarios.

    Lessons do come through many things.Ironically, we only learn about certain things though we usually see it. In my life, it was taught by my ball. I used to play with this blue ball of mine. I kicked it hard.So hard that the ball flew from my sight. When I was looking for it in a park, I saw a woman with my ball underneath her jacket. I asked my ball,of course. Then and there I learned about pregnancy; and I was 9. Although I always pass by pregnant ladies, I never had a thought to ponder on hows and whys of their big bellies. Since that awkward incident, I felt that I'm surrounded by them. On certain point of our life, we will be ready to learn and know something. Before that, we don't give any attention to it though it occurred multiple times. True?

    In some point of our life, we tend to go through a series of catastrophe. Face it, we will learn something ONLY when we got knocked down. Another thing, we LOVE SAFE ZONE and RIGIDITY. When we study hard? -only when we almost fail. When we work out? Only when the doctor says, " You have diabetes..." As long we didn't get the CATASTROPHE, we will be on the rocking chair comfortably  (Until a rock hit us, of course). When problems hugs a happy human, he asks, what should I do now? Rather than "Why this always happen to me?" then, they jump from the bridge.

    Susan was dumped by her boyfriend. Her heart broke to pieces and grounds herself for a week. She calls her old friend and move to somewhere else. She works at a new place and procured serenity within 6 months. Recalling the event series, she noticed that got dumped was a blessing in disguise. Ted got fired. He made a substantial loan and runs his own business. A cupcake cottage. For the first time in his life, he becomes the boss of his own. He might face financial problems, called names like 'softie', a cup cake thrown to his face for its taste but still, he has the passion to do it as cup cake is his passion.

    Do you notice something? A pregnant woman got shot. Kind hearted man killed by muggers. Whole villages got ruined in environmental disaster. Why these happen? Do you notice that, only certain problems affects particular people. John got fired almost every six months. Louise always get food poison. John never get food poison and Louise have great employment record. How about you?

    When we face a CONTINUOUS PARTICULAR problem, that means you ARE NOT PAYING ATTENTION TO THE LESSON YOU NEED TO LEARN. You can't run from it. Let's say you are a chronic spender. You had a large debt and you run to Argentina. You continued that habit and become Argentina's next top accounts receivable model. Wanna run again? Hence, AS LONG YOU DON'T CHANGE, THE SAME PROBLEM COMES AFTER YOU.

    The point here,WE ARE HERE TO LEARN AND THE MOTHER EARTH IS THE BEST TEACHER.When we fail in a lesson, we have to retake it. AS SOON WE UNDERSTAND THE LESSON, WE WILL MOVE TO THE NEXT LESSON. Good luck with your life,then. Keep in mind, your world is how you see and judge.

 

 

 
 

Three is better than one

 Dear Readers, 

    My first mini story yang Dania tulis dalam blog ni nak dedicate to my beloved friends Alin & Obie yang even no one can imagine betapa rapatnya kitorang bersama and sampai ada juga yang kata Alin, Obie and I lesb*** . hahahaha! Kalau ada skala yang boleh ukur keintiman kitaorang ni memang dah melebihi had sukatan, confirm punyaaaaaa! LOL

    Why 'Three is better than one' ? boleh imagine tak kalau kita hidup sorang? ha! macam mana pula kalau berdua? Well, in terms of ' love relationship' bolehla berdua but in terms of friendship I definitely go with three! Special-nya friendship kitorang ni sebab kitorang dulu siap ada nama geng, 'TRYBELL' katanyaaaaa!..hahahaha (konon masa zaman sekolah dulu macam 'cool' la ada nama geng contoh macam TARAKUCAS , TGI KAMI, macam-macam lagilaa budak zaman dulu-dulu ni especially batch 90's...Maklumlah budak baru nak Up , budak baru nak rasa miang and berangan bila kena tegur dengan senior form 4 and form5.Ceh padahal tegur zip beg terbukak je tak pun tegur suruh ikat tali kasut bukan nak ngorat sangatlaaaaa..LoL :D
Bukan setakat ada nama geng, ada juga lagu tema friendship kitorang. hahahahha! kalau dulu kitorang suka sangat layan lagu yang ala-ala girlish and country song macam Taylor Swift punya lagu. Theme song for our friendship dulu lagu 'Crazier' by Taylor Swift. Perghhhhh ! boleh jugak tangkap jiwang dengan kawan sendiri..hihi  korang jangan salah paham about our friendship punya bonding ni okay? I just wanna share something yang walaupun input dia nmpak simple dan macam takde pengajaran disebalik cerita ni, but still korang kena ingat, this little things yang korang tak appreciate or take it for granted  boleh melumpuhkan kemanisan dalam perhubungan gituuuuuuu...hahahaha! keep it as a reminder ok sayang-sayang? Do appreciate all the little things ! Fikir balik the moment korang dengan family,friends or GF/BF (jika ada) benda-benda macam ni boleh buat kita rasa 'fantabulous' setiap hari sebab ramai orang yang still sayang kita. ALHAMDULILLAH. Teringat pula keknis (Hanis Zalikha) pernah cakap pasal 'dihargai dan menghargai' punya cerita yang dia ada tulis dalam kolum untuk satu newspaper.Cerita tu memang sangat terkesan sangat dalam hati. Double thumbs up sis !

Apa konklusi? apa resolusi? apa outcome learning yang korang dapat? Think about it deeply walaupun cerita ni dah lari dari tajuk 'Three is Better Than One' tu..hahahah ;) tak kesahla yang penting for those yang faham dan mengerti isi cerita ni thank you so much readers ! :) 
                                                                                                                                     

                                                                                                                                  
                                            We are 'Trybell' (Dania,Obie,Alin)

                                                


                                                                                                        Lots of love,Dania