Beauty is in the phi of the beholder, a blessing, a curse, and more than skin deep.

*bleeding nose* LOL. Okay, let's face it. When we meet someone new a first impression is first about looks; only later do things such as personality, brains and character start to take on meaning. A side note about beauty is that weight isn't much of a factor, unless the person is morbidly obese or anorexically skinny. The key to perceived beauty is the face. 

*If you don't agree please do comment. I'd love to know your opinions on this. :)*

BEAUTY IS IN THE PHI OF THE BEHOLDER?

Mathematician try to put beauty in numbers. And that's where phi comes in. You see, they said beauty is all about symmetry, which is signified by the golden ratio

Korean beauty standards (S lines, V lines, X-line, are in today and it's slightly different than the Americans. Based on my observation, 18-25 years old Malaysians' idea of ideal beauty of a woman is pretty much the same: fair flawless radiant skin, which is the reason for the madness to KColly, AuraWhite, Pearl-White and other collagen-based-whitening supplement (White face, black hands? urmm...) Actually the colour of our skin shouldn't matter, it's geographically dependant, look at this female beauty standards of the world

Oh! I found out that it's actually prohibited (haram) to do this..is it true? Idk really, *If you don't agree or want to comment anything, please do so. I'd love to know your opinions on this. :)*

BEAUTY IS A BLESSING?

Most of us, regardless of our professed attitudes, prefer as customers to buy from better-looking salespeople, as jurors to listen to better-looking attorneys, as voters to be led by better-looking politicians, as students to learn from better-looking professors. Plus, the self-esteem of beautiful people is relatively higher than the averaged ones. Don't worry, with the right motivation and tools, beauty is easy. (I think I'll post about that later on)

Tbh idk how to wear make-up. Make up is scary...

BEAUTY IS A CURSE?

Some people say that beauty is a curse. The dark side of beauty includes narcissism, prone to douchebags who take advantage on their preys, obsession to stay pretty according to specified beauty standards etc. 63% of people said that the beauty standards today is NOT HEALTHY. It is RIDICULOUS. FYI, these are the common beauty-related disorders that need help, ie bulimia, obesity, anorexia

                

BEAUTY IS SKIN DEEP?

Nope, beauty is more than skin deep

So is it possible to determine something as "objectively beautiful" when the values of beauty are constantly shifting? Absolutely no. Well, yes as a guideline to make you a better but not to the point of obsession.  Everyone have different definitions of beauty. You don't have to conform to other's idea of ideal beauty. In my humble opinion, 

PS: I'm Nurul Shahidah  (aka @ShidaChipsmore) and I apologize for any mistake or wrong info. Please correct me if I'm wrong. Please tell me your opinions about this post or suggestions for the next posts. The comment section is all yours! Stay tune to UMalaya Radio and do support us! ^_^ 

Simpan dalam hatimu

Jiwa memang begitu

Sekejap kacau

Sekejap tenang

Tak terjangkau dek akal

Mampu merenggut kebahagiaan

Siapa pun gerangan

Itu pun kalau ada tepuk bersambut

Hati sekadar menumpangi bahu

Buat mengadu rasa

Memujuk emosi

Gelaran sekadar teman

Bersentuh bersalam

Hebatnya rasa

Walau cuma huruf yang disentuh

Mampu membuat cemburu mendidih

Bagai Acheh dilanda tsunami

Siapalah diri begitu besar upaya

Kawan...kadang kadang mampu membuat kita terseyum

kadang kadang mampu membuat kita menangis

memang sukar menilai erti kawan

memang sukar nak mencari yang ikhlas berkawan

apa ertinya kawan kalau tak mampu jadi kawan

untuk apa berkawan kalau bertujuan untuk berlawan

apa ertinya kawan..,kalau kawan suka makan kawan

berkawan dengan jujur,insyaAllah akan berkekalan

berkawan dengan hasad dengki,akan menambah emosi

berkawan memerlukan keikhlasan

berkawan memerlukan kesefahaman

berkawan memerlukan pengorbanan

Begitulah kawan....begitulah manusia

aku juga sebagai kawan

banyak kelemahanya

Selfiee!! ♥♥

Selfie. Im really sure every each of us sgt suka selfie. Sejauh mana they denied,still inside die punya diri mesti akan suka selfie juga. Am I right?  I mean siapa jee yang tak suka akn diri masing2?? Kalau tak suka juga,mungkin sebab die bukan laa seorang yang bersyukur dgn diri sendiri.

So selfie adalah mengambil gambar diri sendiri dengan gaya masing2. Perkataan selfie juga adalah antara perkataan yang paling tinggi dan kerap digunakan di dalam kebanyakan penggguna instagram. I read the newspaper and kalau search dekat insta pun,penggunaan tag selfie mencecah berjuta!

Jadi, adakah selfie salah satu tabiat yang buruk?ataupun sesuatu tabiat yang patut dikekalkan atau dipupuk dalam kalangan diri masing2?? Lol. Every each of us have their own answer.

But for me,kenapa I suka selfie? Sebab I just love to see a pitcure of me everytime I took a photo. Its not about your obsess dgn diri sendiri, its just that,its the way for me to appreciate ape yang tuhan telah beri! So I selfie!! Then lepas I puas dgn hasil tangkapan I,I will be like a very happy kids in the world! Mcm baru lepas minum dekat starbuck rase die!! Lol.

Other than that, selfie juga boleh heal our pain. I mean,whenever u rase damn atau kurang semangat,try to take your own photo!! Trust me,its going to work!u akan happy as usual,mcm ta ade ape2 punn berlaku!! Lol. So lepaa ni kalau sedih, selfie okee!!

So, I rase itu je kot setakat hari ini. Oh ya, I ade selitkan sedikit a pitcure of me berselfie!! It will be more from me after this! Good night!! Xoxo!!

Subjek Hubungan Etnik Tidak Relevan?

Sudah seminggu lebih semester 2 sesi 2013/2014 bermula, seperti biasa pada minggu pertama pengkuliahan, kita akan mengikuti kelas "introduction" dan diberitahu mengenai proforma kursus dan sebagainya. Begitu juga dengan saya pada semester ini, salah satu subjek yang saya daftarkan ialah subjek hubungan etnik,  saya percaya semua pelajar Universiti Malaya sudah atau akan mengambil subjek tersebut, kerana hubungan etnik merupakan subjek wajib universiti.

Relevankah subjek hubungan etnik?, persoalan ini tiba-tiba muncul di minda saya. Bukan kerana saya yang berfikiran jahat kerana menganggap subjek hubungan etnik tidak relevan, tetapi persoalan ini muncul di benak fikiran saya apabila pensyarah subjek tersebut sendiri yang menanyakan satu soalan yang berbunyi seperti ini.... "kamu semua rasa adakah perlu mempelajari subjek hubungan etnik? Adakah ianya penting?. Tiada pelajar yang berani bersuara menjawab soalan tersebut, sebaliknya hanya memberi isyarat melalui kepala sahaja. Terdapat separuh pelajar menggelengkan kepala dan separuh lagi mengangguk kepala..
Pensyarah itu tadi kemudiannya lantas bertanya kepada salah seorang pelajar yang menggeleng kepala (sebagai tanda subjek hubungan etnik tidak penting), kenapa dia merasakan subjek hubungan etnik tidak relevan, pelajar yang berbangsa cina itu menjawab dalam bahasa inggeris bahawa setiap pelajar sudah biasa bergaul dengan semua etnik, sama ada cina, melayu, india atau etnik lain dengan begitu harmoni dan menurutnya tidak perlu lagi untuk diajar cara-cara untuk berhubung antara etnik. Jika difikirkan kata-kata pelajar itu, ya, ada betulnya juga, kita sudah biasa bergaul antara etnik secara realiti atau praktikal, jadi kenapa masih perlu diajar secara teori lagi?. Bukan itu sahaja, terdapat "bisik-bisik belakang" yang mengatakan subjek hubungan etnik membosankan, tidak menarik, dan pergi ke kelas semata-mata untu menandatangan kehadiran sahaja.

Dari pandangan peribadi saya, subjek hubungan etnik yang telah diperkenalkan sejak tahun 2005 ini, merupakan satu subjek yang penting untuk sebuah negara yang berbilang kaum dan etnik seperti Malaysia. Subjek ini mendidik kita untuk lebih memahami dengan mendalam setiap bangsa, dan etnik yang ada di dalam negara kita. Kita diajar sikap hormat-menghormati, tolerasi, dan sebagainya. Subjek ini jika dihayati dapat menjadi "tali" untuk "mengikat" semangat perpaduan antara rakyat Malaysia. Selain itu, subjek ini juga tidak membosankan kerana mempunyai kerja lapangan serta terdapat aktiviti yang menarik seperti lawatan ke rumah ibadat setiap agama yang ada di Malaysia dan sebagainya. Study ethnic relations is fun.

Hectic life

Hello errbody

Its been one helluva week for me.
Its only the second week and i am already drained.
i guess there's no use in complaining cause this is what all uni life is all about.
Compared to engineering students or medical students, i have nothing to complain. They're much busier than me. Therefore, all i have to do now is to contain and sustain whatever im doing rn.

At times, i feel so tired i just wanna sleep but most of the time i manage to overwhelmed all this feelings and let it left behind.

At my utmost level of "rajinity" thats what i called it . rajin + ity, I can do any work or complete any work less that the time i casually needed.
But unfortunately, im a lazy person. i like to sleep. eat. sleep. do some futsal. play some computer games. and sleep again.

I should stop being lazy and do something about this.

till then, im going to ZZZzzzzzzzzzz .....